Fewer things lead to stress, arguing, and discord among family members like the death of a loved one. Navigating an estate, administering a will, and distributing belongings are daunting tasks in the face of grief. Fortunately, there are a few important measures that can be put into place now to reduce family discord when that time comes. Start by choosing the best executor for your estate. While the senior most family member may be your first choice, stop and think about other trusted friends and family members who might be better qualified. Choose someone with patience, organizational skills, a strong sense of ethics and integrity, and the practicality to handle the situation objectively.
Another smart way to avoid family squabbles is to have a frank, open discussion with them. Ask them who wants what and why from your personal possessions. It may be a difficult conversation in the beginning, but it will save hurt feelings, misunderstandings, and unnecessary arguments in the long run. This conversation is also a good time to explain why you’re making certain financial and asset distribution decisions. Sometimes, a clear understanding can avert hard feelings all on its own.
Creating a complete estate plan is your way of giving voice to your preferences. It allows you, not the state, to decide how your assets are distributed and who serves as guardian for your minor children. It’s important that you understand what happens upon your demise, that your family knows and understands your wishes and preferences, and that you work together as a threefold team – you, your attorneys, and your family members – to create a plan today that staves off hurt and confusion tomorrow.
The best way to avoid family discord after your demise is to work with an estate planning attorney like the ones as the Grissom Law, LLC. We have the expertise and objectivity you need to make a fair distribution of your assets or that your assets are distributed how you wish. You’ll love the ease of working with us. Your family will appreciate the forethought and the lasting gift of peace of mind.
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